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This is my 1st time realizing, seeing self-respect as an important thing in one's mind is a kind of ridiculous. ridiculous to death.
這是我第一次知道，把自尊放在嘴邊，是多麼荒謬的一件事。
Too much ego brings too much unhappiness.
太多的自尊，會造成很多傷害。
I was happy I let it go, and dealt with my friend's emotion by my apology towards her self-esteem--even though it was not my fault.
我很高興我制止了自己的尊嚴，用我的道歉去處理我朋友聲名"她的自尊心受損"的情緒~ 但是我並沒有犯任何錯。
Strangely I apologied threee times ( out of harmony) , and she still said to me: "no, i think you're blaming me, so maybe I still cancel the date with you and your friends." , just because " I hurt her self-esteem"---out her mouth, not my guessing.
好笑的是，出於不傷和氣的理由，我還道歉了三次"我道歉，可能我口氣不太好~ 但有些事要先讓妳了解..." 結果她還 是高高在上，說她要取消這次的出遊計劃~ 昨天她說不，今天又改口，為了她說要去，房間又重訂 ，又趕緊加約其他人，現在又要來這招？別了吧，大肖姐！只是因為她說「我說要去玩，妳居然沒有很開心，還一直訓我話」.....我真是無言。
Oh.. why did n't she think she made a little trouble to me and my friends, she said" yes, i should hang out with you" and then she canceled after we arranged everything, the hotel and the cars. I seriouly reminded her not doing the same fault again as she phoned herself she decided to go.
我是鄭重地提醒她「小姐，真的要去，不可以再改了，不然房間和車子又要重新安排。」就惹來她的不爽。天曉得她上次也這樣，我才必須鄭重提醒她的。
Then, I was committed?然後，我就被ooxx了。
媽的媽的~ I yelled out.. in my mind.
我想我也曾這樣對待過其他的人吧？努力回想著。唉！報應。我要從容面對！於是...
According to " Secrets of the Millionaire Mind", I had to release my bad emotion. Usually I used to fight back, but not this time. I decide to 顧全大局，and then~ Finally, happy ending.
根據「有錢人想的和你不一樣」這本書，我決定改變一下口水戰，我要丟掉負面情緒，好好跟他談。並且發動溫情攻勢，曉以大義，於是~ 結局美滿。耶~ 真是不愧對我看完這本書啦!!我覺得全世界想好好經營自己的人，都應該買一本來看。不只對於金錢，對於價值觀也有很大改變。
Yes,... the first step to move forward the Millionaire. hehe.
踏上有錢台階的第一步，耶。
今天要去聽 "新興市場教父"光頭佬的演講，聽完有什麼心得再寫寫。
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